When to Send Save the Dates and How They Differ from Invitations

Send your Save the Dates around 6–12 months before your wedding (or as soon as your date and venue are confirmed). They give your guests plenty of time to plan ahead — especially if travel is involved. Invitations, on the other hand, are sent later, usually 6–8 weeks before the big day.

Why Send Save the Dates

Save the Dates are optional, but they’re incredibly useful. They’re perfect for when you’ve chosen your wedding date but haven’t finalized all the details just yet. Sending one early helps ensure your favorite people can actually make it — before their calendars fill up with holidays, travel plans, or other events.

Think of it as a thoughtful courtesy: a quick, stylish way to say “We’d love you to be there — mark your calendar!” Plus, it sets the tone for your wedding long before the formal invitation arrives.

How Save the Dates Differ from Invitations

Your Save the Date simply announces your wedding date and location — it’s a heads-up. Your invitation, sent closer to the event, includes all the important details like timing, venue address, dress code, and RSVP information.

If you’re ordering printed invitations, it’s a great idea to choose Save the Dates that match your invitation suite. This creates a cohesive look from start to finish, giving guests a first glimpse of your wedding style.