How to Plan a Gender Reveal Party with Style

The stork is on its way—but what will baby be? Everyone's buzzing with excitement! But before you start stocking up on baby booties and onesies, there's one BIG question: Is it a he, or is it a she?!

Gender reveals have become one of the most joyful trends in recent years—a meaningful way to share your baby’s big secret with those who matter most. So rather than sending a text or social media update, why not turn the moment into a fun-filled event full of laughter, surprises, and sweet memories?

If you're ready to throw a gender reveal party to remember, you’re in the right place.

The Invitations: Setting the Tone for Sweet Surprises

Your celebration begins the moment your guests open their invite. This dreamy pink-and-blue invitation suite—featuring soft pastel hues, celestial icons, and playful design elements like clouds, moons, and stars—beautifully blends elegance and whimsy.

Shop the Invitation here.

Pro Tip: Create a cohesive look by pairing your invitation with matching Save the Date cards, RSVP slips, favor tags, and thank-you notes.

Sample Invitation Wording Ideas:

You’re welcome to personalize every part of your Claudia Owen invitation! If the sample wording isn’t quite right for your event, here are a few alternative ideas to help you make the message your own:

He or She? What Will Baby Be?
Join us for a gender reveal party as we pop the big surprise!
[Date] • [Time] • [Location]
Wear pink or blue to cast your vote!

Over the Moon with Excitement!
A little star is on the way—
Join us as we reveal if baby’s shining bright in pink or blue!
[Event details here]

Sun, Moon, and Stars… What Will You Be?
Celebrate under the stars as we share baby’s big reveal!
[Event details here]

Twinkle, twinkle, little star
How we wonder what you are!
A little bundle is on the way,
Let’s find out together on this special day!
[Event details here]

Cohesive Décor: A Dreamy Pink and Blue Palette

Transform your space into a pastel paradise with light pinks, dusty blues, and creamy neutrals—echoing the soft tones of your invitation.

This gender reveal setup embraces the classic pink and blue color palette with a modern pastel twist. Pale linens, natural light, and soft aqua dishware create a serene, joyful vibe.

Décor Ideas to Bring the Party to Life:

Once you've sent your beautiful invitation, it's time to set the scene! Here are some easy and affordable ways to decorate your space to match your celestial theme and pastel palette:

• Pinwheels and tissue fans in pink and blue
  

• Pastel balloon arch with clouds and gold stars
  

• “Boy or Girl?” backdrop or “GENDER REVEAL” letter cut-outs
  

• Table centerpieces featuring baby books, booties, or rattles
  

• Twinkling string lights or fairy lights for a magical ambiance
  

• Scatter star confetti or pastel table gems for sparkle
  

• Hang cloud cutouts from the ceiling with fishing wire
  

• Use moon or star-shaped LED lights or lanterns
  

• Incorporate baby blocks in pink and blue as part of your centerpiece

A cozy yet elegant tablescape that embraces the “Team Pink” vs. “Team Blue” theme. The setting features pastel pink and soft aqua plates, cloud-themed napkins, and blush-blue placemats for a whimsical, cohesive look.

Style Tips for a Designer Touch:

Want your party to look like it’s straight off Pinterest? Here are some easy ways to add that elevated designer feel—without the stress.

• Split the buffet into “Sweet Little Lady” vs “Dashing Little Dude” sections
  

• Add “guess the gender” name cards at place settings
  

• Use baby powder-scented candles or soft florals (like hydrangeas or baby’s breath)
  

• Incorporate your invitation icons (moons, stars, teddies) in table décor

Food and Drinks: Sweet (and Savory) Surprises

Let your menu carry the gender reveal theme with pastel colors and playful presentations.

Sweet Treats with a Pink and Blue Palette
Not every treat needs to reveal the secret—some can simply play into the festive colors:

• Macarons with pink and blue fillings
  

• Cotton candy cones in baby-themed colors
  

• Chocolate-covered pretzels with matching sprinkles
  

• Donuts dusted with pastel icing or powdered sugar
  

• Rice Krispies treats dipped in white chocolate and decorated with pink/blue drizzle

Savory Bites for the Win
Balance the sweets with flavorful, color-themed snacks:

• Mini sliders with pink and blue flags or toothpicks
  

• Blue corn tortilla chips with pink salsa (try strawberry jalapeño!)
  

• Deviled eggs with pink or blue-dyed yolk filling
  

• Charcuterie boards with berries, pickled veggies, and colored cheeses
  

• Fruit skewers with strawberries, blueberries, and marshmallows

Sip Sip Hooray: Gender Reveal Drinks
Keep guests refreshed with these colorful sips:

• “Team Pink” Strawberry Lemonade
  

• “Team Blue” Blueberry Iced Tea or Punch
  

• Sparkling water with color-changing ice cubes
  

• A neutral base (like lemonade) with pink or blue drink stirrers or garnishes
  

• Mocktails with festive mini umbrellas or baby bottle drink containers

Pro Tips for a Picture-Perfect Food Table

• Use pastel or neutral tableware and let the food colors pop.
  

• Add cute signage like “Sweet Little One” or “He or She? Come and See!”
  

• Consider food tags like “Booties or Bowties?” or “Waffles or Ruffles?”
  

• Coordinate your invitation design with our matching menu for a cohesive look.

Gender Reveal Games to Keep Guests Engaged

Keep the party lively with interactive games everyone will love:

1. Old Wives’ Tales Trivia

Can these myths predict your baby’s gender? Let’s find out!

How to Play:  Create a sign or printable with classic old wives’ tales. Guests vote boy or girl based on each one:

Example Questions:

• Craving sweet = girl / Craving salty = boy
  

• Morning sickness = girl / No morning sickness = boy
  

• Baby bump high = girl / Low = boy
  

• Fast heart rate = girl / Slow = boy

Tally the answers and have a little fun before the big reveal.

2. Team Pink vs. Team Blue Voting Station

Let the competition begin!

How to Play: Set up a board or jars where guests can “vote” for their guess using:

• Pins or stickers

• Beads in jars

• Wearable badges (Team Pink or Team Blue)

Great for photos and building anticipation!

3. Guess the Baby Item

Test your baby knowledge!

How to Play: Place various baby items (pacifier, teether, onesie, etc.) in opaque gift bags. Guests feel the item (no peeking!) and guess what it is.

Give them a list to fill in. Whoever gets the most right wins a prize!

4. Name That Baby Tune

Music and memories!

How to Play: Play short clips of songs that have the word “baby” in the title or lyrics. Guests must guess the name of the song or artist.

Fun bonus: Karaoke challenge for brave guests!

5. Don’t Say Baby

Simple—but hilarious!

How to Play: As guests arrive, give them a clothespin or bracelet. If someone hears another guest say “baby,” they can take their pin! The person with the most pins at the end wins.

Easy, ice-breaking game that lasts throughout the party.

6. Baby Predictions Card

Let your guests guess it all!

How to Play: Give guests a card to write their predictions:

• Gender

• Birth date

• Weight and height

• Hair color, eye color, name guesses!

Keep them as a keepsake for the baby book!

7. Balloon Pop Quiz

Pop for points!

How to Play: Fill balloons with trivia questions about the parents-to-be or baby facts. Guests pop a balloon, answer the question, and collect points.

Winner gets a small prize!

8. Diaper Notes

Sweet, funny, or slightly cheeky—your choice!

How to Play: Set up a table with diapers and markers. Ask guests to write funny or encouraging notes for late-night diaper changes. It’s more of a keepsake activity but always gets laughs!

Fun Gender Reveal Game Prizes

Game Prize Ideas:
Want to keep your guests motivated during the games? Offering cute little prizes can spark fun competition! Here are some prize ideas your guests will love:

• Mini spa sets
  

• Gift cards
  

• Cute mugs
  

• Candles
  

• Sweet treat bags

Fun Reveal Ideas That Make a Statement

Stuck on how to make your big reveal unforgettable? Here are some exciting ways to surprise your guests and announce baby’s gender in a fun, creative way:

• Balloon Pop: Fill a large box with helium balloons in the chosen gender color, and have the parents-to-be pop the box to release the balloons and reveal the color.

• Piñata Surprise: Fill a piñata with confetti or colored candy that matches the gender, and let guests take turns breaking it open for the reveal.

• Colorful Powder Blast: Have the parents-to-be simultaneously throw colored powder in the air, creating a vibrant cloud that reveals the baby's gender.

• Cupcake Filling: Bake cupcakes with colored frosting inside, so when guests take a bite, they discover the baby's gender.

• Paint Splatter: The expectant couple can throw or splatter paint-filled balloons against a blank canvas, unveiling the gender through the colors.

• Scratch-off Cards: Create personalized scratch-off cards for guests, with the gender revealed beneath the scratch-off surface.

• Confetti Cannon: Shoot a confetti cannon that releases colored confetti in the chosen gender shade, surprising everyone with the reveal.

• Exploding Baseball or Golf Ball: Hit a baseball or golf ball filled with colored powder or paint, creating a burst of color on impact.

• Fortune Cookies: Order or make custom fortune cookies with gender-specific colored fortune slips inside. Guests can crack open the cookies to discover the baby's gender.

• Puzzle Pieces: Create a custom jigsaw puzzle with a photo or message related to the baby's gender. As guests put the pieces together, the hidden image or message will reveal the gender.

Dress Code: Blush and Blue With a Twist

Encourage guests to come dressed in pink or blue to cast their vote—and turn it into a game! Keep score and reveal who guessed correctly for added fun.

Style Ideas for Guests

• For Her: Blush maxi dress, blue wrap dress, or white with pastel accents

• For Him: Light pink polo or blue shirt with neutral chinos

• For Kids: “Team Sister” or “Team Brother” T-shirts and bows

Want to include a dress code like “blush and blue” on your invitations? We can help! Claudia Owen invitations can include extra wording on the back of the card, or you can order a separate details card with all the style info your guests need.

Don’t Forget the Photos: Capture Every Sweet Moment

Make your gender reveal party truly unforgettable by setting up a DIY photo booth where guests can snap fun, themed pictures to commemorate the day.

Photo Booth Ideas:

• Props like pink glasses, blue mustaches, pacifiers
  

• “Team Girl” / “Team Boy” handheld signs
  

• Chalkboard with Old Wives’ Tales for guests to vote
  

• Backdrop with “Team Pink vs. Team Blue” sides for posing

This sign perfectly captures the whimsical and sweet anticipation of meeting our little one. Place it at the entrance, with favors or a guestbook, or use it as a charming photo booth backdrop. Shop the welcome sign here.

Gender Reveal Party Favor Ideas

Send your guests home with a sweet little thank-you! Here are some simple and meaningful favor ideas your guests will actually use:

• Mini Scented Candles or Soaps

• Sweet Treat Bags

• “Watch Me Grow” Succulent Favors

• “A Baby Is Brewing” Tea or Coffee Packs

• Custom Fortune Cookies

• Hand Sanitizers or Lip Balm

• “Team Pink” / “Team Blue” Keychains or Buttons

• Custom Notepads or Journals

• Pink or blue nail polish
  

• Pastel scrunchies or hair ties

• Mini packets of popcorn or cotton candy

• Bath bombs in your party colors

Add a charming touch to your party favors with this personalized notepad—it’s a cute, practical keepsake your guests will actually use and adore. Shop the notepad here.

Thank your guests in style with a personalized thank you card—perfect not only for your gender reveal celebration, but for life’s little moments too. Whether you’re sharing a smile, marking a milestone, or simply saying thanks, these cards make every note feel extra meaningful. Shop the thank you card here.

Packaging Tips:

Not sure how to package your party favors? Here are a few cute and easy ideas.

• Use kraft paper boxes, organza bags, or custom favor bags.
  

• Decorate with pink and blue twine, mini clothespins, or “boy or girl?” stickers.
  

• Add tags with baby footprints, question marks, or “Thank You” notes.

Note: At Claudia Owen, we offer favor tags and stickers to complete your packaging—and you can order them to match your invitation suite.

Looking for a sweet and practical favor or thank-you gift?
Our baby-themed note cards feature adorable, nursery-inspired designs that are perfect for gender reveals, baby showers, and new parents. Use them as thank-you cards, gift enclosures, or keepsakes guests will actually use.

Gender Reveal FAQs

Q: What is a Gender Reveal?
A: A gender reveal is a special celebration where expecting parents share the exciting news of their baby’s gender (sex assigned at birth) with friends and family—often in a fun, creative, or surprising way.

Q: How early should I send out the invitations?
A: We recommend sending invitations 3–4 weeks in advance. If guests are traveling, it’s a great idea to send Save the Date cards earlier to give them time to plan.

At Claudia Owen, we offer matching Save the Dates so your suite is beautifully coordinated from start to finish.

Q: Can I include a baby registry?
A: Yes, you can include your baby registry. Many people include a short registry line at the bottom of the main invitation or on the back. If you’d prefer, you can have a separate insert card with your registry information. All of our designs have matching insert cards that you can purchase with your invitations.

Q: Is it okay if we don’t know the gender yet?
A: Absolutely! Have your OB or clinic write it down and give it to a trusted friend, bakery, or balloon company so you can be surprised with everyone else.

Q: At what month do you do a gender reveal?
A: Many parents wait until 18–20 weeks (around 4.5 to 5.5 months), to plan their gender reveal, once they’ve had their mid-pregnancy scan and feel more confident moving forward.

Q: Is 12 weeks too early for a gender reveal?
A: It can be early for an ultrasound, but blood tests like NIPT at 10–12 weeks are very accurate. If you want to wait for a scan, aim for 18+ weeks.

Q: What if we want to be surprised too?
A: Easy! Ask your doctor to seal the gender result in an envelope and pass it to someone you trust to plan the reveal.

Q: Who usually throws a gender reveal party?
A: Many expecting parents host it themselves, but it can also be thrown by a close friend, sibling, or grandparent, especially if the couple wants to be surprised.

Q: What if the ultrasound was wrong?
A: While rare, it can happen. For more confidence, consider confirming with a non-invasive prenatal blood test (NIPT).

Q: What if we’re expecting twins or triplets?
A: So fun! Reveal each baby’s gender one at a time—with separate cupcakes, smoke bombs, or balloons for extra excitement.

Q: Are gender reveals appropriate for second or third babies?
A: Of course! Every baby is a reason to celebrate. Some parents opt for smaller or virtual gatherings the second time around.

Q: Can we include cultural or religious traditions?
A: Absolutely. Personal touches like blessings, traditional colors, or meaningful music make the celebration even more special.

Q: What if guests are uncomfortable with gendered themes?
A: Focus on the joy of welcoming a new life. Use inclusive language like “Baby’s Big Reveal,” and keep decorations fun and light without relying on stereotypes.

Q: Is it okay to have a gender reveal if we don’t want to do pink and blue?
A: Absolutely! You can choose any color palette that feels right for you—greens and yellows, neutrals, or even a theme like "What Will Baby Bee?" or "Twinkle Little Star." Our invitations can be customized to suit your vision, no matter the color scheme.

Q: Is a gender reveal too “extra” or outdated?
A: Not at all! Gender reveals have evolved to be more personal, fun, and low-pressure. It’s just another way to gather your loved ones and celebrate your growing family. Whether you go big or keep it simple, it’s all about creating memories that matter to you.

Q: Can I include older siblings in the reveal?
A: Definitely! Many parents-to-be have siblings pop balloons, open boxes, or cut the cake. It’s a beautiful way to involve them and make them feel special in the spotlight, too.

Q: What if we want to keep the gender a secret from ourselves too?
A: That’s totally possible — just ask your doctor or sonographer to write the result down and seal it in an envelope. You can then give that to a trusted friend, bakery, or party planner (or us!) to prepare the reveal so you’re surprised with everyone else.

Q: What if I’m short on time to plan this?
A: That’s where we come in! Our invitation suites are designed to make things easy—we offer coordinating save-the-date cards, RSVP slips, favor tags, thank-you notes, and more. Plus, we handle all the editing for you, so you can relax and enjoy the celebration.

Q: What if I don’t know what wording or colors to choose?
A: Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with templates, sample wording, and color suggestions. Plus, every element can be customized, and we’re happy to make revisions until everything feels just right for you.+

Q: Can I get everything to match?
A: Yes! We offer a full suite of coordinated stationery: from invitations to favor tags, stickers, welcome signs, thank-you cards, and even notepads. Your party will look polished and cohesive from start to finish.

Q: Can I include a photo on the invitation?
A: Yes, many of our designs can include a personal photo if you’d like to add one. It’s a beautiful way to personalize the invitation and make it uniquely yours.

Q: Is it okay to host a gender reveal without gifts?
A: Yes! Gender reveals are often casual, joy-focused celebrations. If you'd prefer no gifts, include a gentle note on the invitation like: “Your presence is the only present we need!” or “No gifts, just good vibes.”

Q: What if we want to make it more inclusive or non-binary?
A: Gender reveals are evolving, and many parents are choosing more inclusive ways to celebrate. You can still throw a joyful party focused on welcoming your baby—with a color theme, a fun reveal moment, or simply a gathering of loved ones. Our designs can be tailored to suit your preferences and language.

Q: Can I host a gender reveal if I already had a baby shower?
A: Definitely. Some families do both—especially if the guest lists or formats are different. Gender reveals tend to be shorter, more casual, and focused on the surprise moment rather than gifts.

Q: Can I order invitations if I don’t have all the details yet?
A: Yes! We’re happy to start your design now and update it once your final date, time, or location is confirmed. We also offer unlimited revisions to make sure everything’s perfect before printing.

Q: What if I’m overwhelmed and don’t know where to start?
A: Don’t worry—we’re here to help! You can pick one of our gender reveal designs and we’ll take care of all the layout and wording. We’re happy to offer guidance at every step so you feel confident and excited, not stressed.

With a beautiful invitation suite like this one, planning a stylish and cohesive gender reveal party is easier than ever. From soft, dreamy details to playful touches and heartfelt memories, this is your moment to celebrate something truly special.

So get creative, stay playful—and don’t forget the camera! Once the cupcakes are bitten or the balloons pop, the real celebration begins.

Your Gender Reveal Party Checklist

Planning your party step-by-step? Here’s a simple checklist to keep things stress-free and stylish:

✅ Choose a theme or color palette
✅ Order your invitation suite (don’t forget RSVP cards and Save the Dates!)
✅ Plan the big reveal moment (balloons, cake, confetti, etc.)
✅ Decide on a guest list
✅ Organize food and drinks — both sweet and savory
✅ Choose a few fun games or activities
✅ Select meaningful prizes or keepsakes
✅ Coordinate your party favors and packaging
✅ Prep a photo booth or backdrop
✅ Finalize your décor: signs, table settings, lighting
✅ Don’t forget your thank-you cards!

Everything from invitations to party details can be coordinated right here in our shop — and we’ll guide you every step of the way.

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We take care of the design work, personalize your stationery with as many revisions as you need, and print everything on high-quality paper — so you can focus on enjoying the celebration.

Need Something Custom? We’ve Got You

Pro Tip: Don’t See the Perfect Gender Reveal Invitation?

We currently offer a small collection of dedicated gender reveal designs—but here’s the good news: any invitation in our shop can be customized into the perfect gender reveal invite.

Love one of our birthday, bridal shower, or wedding invitations? We can:

• Change the title (e.g., from “Bridal Shower” to “Gender Reveal Party”)
  

• Adjust the color scheme to match pink and blue (or any palette you love)
  

• Update the wording, layout, and font to fit your vision
  

• And best of all? We’ll make those changes for you at no extra cost.
  

When you place your order, just include your requested wording — and we’ll take care of everything for you. You’ll receive a proof before printing, and we offer unlimited revisions to make sure it’s just right.

Your dream gender reveal design might already be in our shop — it just needs a little Claudia Owen magic!

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